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>Am I overcompensating?

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I always knew that I would not be a SAHM even before I was pregnant with Princess, I love ‘stuff’ too much and I really enjoy the interaction and challenges I face at work. Oh yes and did I mention I love stuff? The problem with the stuff I like (cultural excursions, new clothes, concert tickets, nice London accommodation in a leafy area with great schools and quiet streets for the little ones . . .) is it costs quite a bit and my gorgeous King is not a multi millionaire, so just as it is for thousands of other couples out there, a double income is a must.

I get a real thrill out of working so to be honest it is more than just material things that keep me grinding on the 9-5. This being said, I sometimes think I overcompensate for the fact that I am away from Princess during the day. She has a fantastic time at her childminders and I think to some extent jealousy plays a huge part on what I decide to do on the weekends with her.

I try to make up for the time I did not see her during the week by doing as much as I possibly can over Saturday and Sunday along with the evenings before bed. We go to local zoos, farms, shops, parks, family visits, bake cakes, play dress up etc. I am trying to quench my daughters thirst for new experiences and let her mind and emotional well being flourish.

But am I doing too much? Can you do too much?

Her birthday is around the corner and I am trying very hard not to go over the top. She wants everything including her gifts to be pink and I have indulged her. Cake, balloons, gifts – Pink.

Would I have done this if I was with her every day, or would I have gone to Sainsbury’s, bought a Hello Kitty cake and invited 5 or 6 kids over for cake and sandwiches?

Am I overcompensating? Or just being a ‘cool’ mummy?

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  • Dianne x

    >I think you are doing what all mums want to do. With my first I was exactly like you and she had everything. I would be exactly the same now but its a bit harder making things equal when you have 4 children. Enjoy every minute together like you are they soon grow up xx

  • Fro’ Fashion Fairy

    >Thank you Dianne, it means a lot to read your comment xxx

  • Sadakat Khan

    >lol your not doing to much yor just spending time with the lil lady!!! all is fair in love war and parenthood loooool!!! my new saying not that i want kids yet tin lets not get this twisted lol

  • Tinuke B

    >But you dooo, don't forget you're Princess' unofficial Godparent, so you have parental responsibilities, namely taking her off my hands for long weekends when she's a teenager!

  • Sadakat Khan

    >lol ok if u said it i do lol!!! kool i will take her off your hands when she is a tennager – i will have kids by then probably lol and she can baby sit lmao!!its what god daughters are for lol :) !

  • Sadakat Khan

    >lol ok if u said it i do lol!!! kool i will take her off your hands when she is a tennager – i will have kids by then probably lol and she can baby sit lmao!!its what god daughters are for lol :) !

  • Tinuke B

    >Yup and it's my job to take comission

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